At HMS, we regularly talk with children about death as part of the natural life cycle. After all, the children have seen dead bugs, some have had pets die or have even experienced death in the family. Death is a part of life so this is not a topic that we shy away from when talking with children.
Dia de los Meurtos is an opportunity to discuss the death of loved ones. We are grateful that one of our families made the beautiful offrenda at right, and came today to discuss its meaning with us: the placing of food items and water as well as candles and flowers. Many children and teachers brought a photograph of a deceased loved one to place on our altar.
It is also an opportunity to discuss emotions like sadness or rejoicing. Discussing loved ones who have passed away is also be a history lesson for these young, growing minds.
If a child asks you questions about dying and death, do not avoid the topic, but nor do you have to sit and have a long discussion with a small child. A simple answer will do just fine, such as “it’s part of nature” or “this is part of being a living being.”